Solving A Relationship Crisis

It is impossible for two people to agree on everything. This is important and worth understanding so as to uphold any relationship. This being the case people should learn to appreciate the present similarities and respect the differences. This means respecting each other’s opinion towards different issues.  Failure to do this can lead to separations or divorce on extreme cases. The courtship season is meant to enable people to learn their spouse’s personalities, their opinions and their reactions when on different moods. On being familiar about each other, it becomes pretty hard to keep quarrelling over petty issues.

Below are some of the ways that can assist couples resolve their issues more amicably, as shown in The Magic of Making up: free e-book download – does it work?  These include:

Listening to each other

Sometimes people disagree to an extent of finding it pretty hard to listen to anything their partners have to say. They do not even look at them one bit. When either partner is burning with anger, it is only best for each to talk at a time. Otherwise, the whole thing may turn into a mess; hitting each other with anger and eventually breaking into fighting is not a big deal. This can only be solved through being patient with one another, respecting each other and eventually finding them worth listening to. By listening, resolution of quarrels is no doubt possible.

Avoid shifting blame to each other

In any argument, everyone feels like they are the ones on the right while their partners are in the wrong. Shifting the blame does not come to any good. It only makes the argument last long as people attempt to justify themselves and make others feel guilty. By the end of it all, no solution is arrived at. The spouses feel that they even cannot listen to others. In such a case, it requires one of the partners to get down to earth and own up mistakes in case they are the ones who were in the wrong. On apologizing, their spouses will easily have the heart to forgive them considering their humble nature.

Proper timing

At times, one of the partners may be infuriated by the other for some reason. It is not always that on speaking it out, a fight may result. This is determined by the way they approach their spouses as well as the moods of the spouse at the time they are told about it. It is only wise to play it cool; mistakes should be spelt out in a calm and friendly way to avoid quarrels. At the same time, the partners should time when their partners are not moody so that they can solve the matter in a much more peaceful manner.

Spelling out problems as they arise

Piled up mistakes are indeed super hard to solve. They may result into a lot of bitterness especially when one of the partners has been lenient for a considerable time. They feel as if their partners are taking advantage of their understanding nature. At the time they can no longer persevere, they may approach their partners in an extremely harsh and uncouth manner. In return, the partners are likely to retaliate in a similar manner. At this time, only an arbitrator can help these two come into a mutual agreement.

Controlling emotions

Self-control is a virtue that is not common to many. People tend to react to situations driven by their emotions at that particular time. Most of the times, this brings along quarrels and eventually may break into a fight. Many human killings as a result of quarrels can be accredited to anger and failure to control anger. People can hit others with anything they come across at that opportune moment. This thus brings the importance of being able to control our feelings. It is advisable for marriage partners that become angry to have some moments with themselves so as not to cause crises.

Applying love in problem resolution

Love is the utmost virtue that upholds a marriage relationship. Love bears all thing, binds the two parties together. Love prevents the couples from too much blaming their partners for mistakes they may have made. Most people tend to set aside love when it comes to solving issues. They tend to address their partners like any other people at that particular moment. However, if all married partners understood the concept of consistent and unconditional love, separation and divorce cases would be unheard of.

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